The greatest and most important adventure of our lives is discovering who we really are. Yet, so many of us walk around either not really knowing or listening to an awful inner critic that gives us all the wrong ideas about ourselves. We mistakenly think of self-understanding as self-indulgence, and we carry on without asking the most important question we’ll ever ask: Who am I really? As Mary Oliver put it, “what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”
A Guide to Finding Yourself
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Kira Moore's Closet 
i am dedicated to making those in my life happy at my expense. therefore sindee is in the closet and male me is limited in happiness by hiding in the closet. My choice my success and failure as i failed to be true to myself at a much younger age.
So for those who teeter on the edge my advice is be You the best you can. In economics term it called lost opportunities. When making one choice other choices vanish and we must move forward.