Being an LGBTQI+ ally within the community | by Rachel Saunders | Aug, 2020 | Medium:
There’s a moment when you first realise to yourself what your gender or sexuality is, that this is me, and, well what am I going to do about it? Straight and cis people don’t need to ‘come out’, in our society why would they? Anyone who identifies outside of those binary boundaries, who transgresses those expectations faces a voyage into the unknown, leaving behind the safe harbour of ‘normality’ into potentially choppy and treacherous waters. There are as many paths to coming out as there are people who take this voyage, and where we end up is dependent on so many factors, many of which depend of the reactions of those around us who still inhabit the cis/straight shore. Oft time, our wellbeing also depends on the reactions of those new communities we make landfall on, within whose spaces we seek to inhabit and become a part of. This is why being an LGBTQI+ ally to those within the rainbow umbrella who identify differently to you is so crucial. Yes, there is more than one way to accept someone’s identity, but there are certainly plenty of ways we can screw things up.
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